Dear husband .. dear wife, there are plenty of benchmarks in improving the intimate relationships between you, but before we start both of you to answer a few simple questions, that will help both of you understand the intimate relationship more clearly:
- Is intimacy is considered an integral part of the marriage relationship, or is it an essential part is more important than the marital relationship overall its image?
- Can you do the intimate practice just to please the other party? Or the desire to achieve a balance of physical, psychological and through intimacy?
- What is more what attracts you to the practice of intimacy in your partner?
- What is the most intimate thing bother you in practice, and respect life partner and Taatmnin be changed?
- How satisfied intimacy compared to expectations and dreams Taatmnaha / Taatmninha that?
Tips for grooms for intimate relationship better
Answer such questions vary from case to case, the answer is not constant, but vary according to the duration of the marriage, and the harmony between the two persons, stage age of the couple, and the most important facts related to sexual relationship as such a changing organism, you need to care and development; do not even enter the tunnel to get a feel and boredom and monotony, which is considered the most dangerous things negative effects on the health of intimacy between the couple's relationship, hence there will be an explanatory message to all married couples; to develop this relationship; each according to his circumstances and place, it can not be generalized sexual counseling to all cases, and also it is important to The couple realizes that the care and development of this relationship is a shared responsibility, not a specific party from the other.
In what some tips geared to both husband and wife following:
- The importance of Aldla (slave deal between the couple) in non-time intimate times, it gives a lot of satisfaction and comfort, which reflects positively on the intimate encounter, for example:
Dear husband when was the last time I called your wife as the thin even before the Ouladkma? Make it feel loved person; even outside intimacy.
You do your part, dear wife does not forget that the husband needs to be a sense that «sexually desirable» by his life partner, do not be ashamed to ask for intimacy (Take Action that Boutrguetk own).
- Things that affect positively on sexual health between you also verbal communication during the relationship, there is no need to be ashamed, Valenkat intimate sexual relationship while working to increase the level of excitement among the couple.
A happy marriage is like a disc of honey Nhltan adopted, the greater the effort the sweetness Shahd increased it, and many are asking how to make happiness in their homes, and why they fail to achieve the bliss of family and stability.
There is no doubt that the responsibility for marital happiness lies on the couple, there must be a love between the spouses. It is not intended reckless love that feeling which suddenly becomes inflamed suddenly turns off, but it is so spiritual and emotional compatibility between the noble sense of the couple.
And a happy home does not stand on love alone, but must be followed by the spirit of tolerance between the couple, and tolerance can not be achieved without the exchange of good thinking and confidence between the parties.
The cooperation is a key factor in creating a happy home, and otherwise weaken the values of love and tolerance. The cooperation is morally and materially. The first consists of a couple of good willingness to resolve what is being offered to the family of problems, most of discord arise from the lack of appreciation of a couple of other troubles, or non-equity partner rights.
We can not enumerate the key factors in creating a happy home without mention of chastity with reverence and awe, they are the focus of a decent life, and the origin of the good in human relations.
One of scientists has written the meeting says: "We have Dltinay experience that the best slogan might take couples to avoid discord, is that no fire can not be extinguished at the start fires cup of water .. because most marital disputes that end in divorce due to trivial things evolve gradually until irreparable "the responsibility to create a home of happiness for parents, often destroys the house of San pungent or sharp print speeds up to strife, and often destroys the pillars of household happiness love authoritarianism or lack of sincerity by a parent and small things in a great building in meaning .
Hack and some of those commandments that contribute to the happiness of your spouse:
1. Do not waver spouse, any insult directed it, remain entrenched in her heart and her mind. The most serious insults that can not be your wife Ngfarha you her heart, even if you Ghafrtha tongue, is that harm the agitated by, or _imha or curse father or mother, or accuses of view.
2. the best transaction for your spouse improves you, made her feel that you prefer yourself, and you're eager to delight, and the Governor on her health, and Amadh for it, if you get sick, for example, what you are capable of.
3. Remember that your wife liked to sit and talk with them and to them in all that comes to mind of affairs. Are not to your house frowning face surly natured, silent and dumb, it raises the anxiety and skepticism. !!
4. Do not impose on your wife's personal interests related Butagaftk or your specialty, you are the professor in astronomy, for example, do not expect to have the same interest in the stars and the universe !!
5. Be upright in your life, not the well. In effect: "Sorry sparing your wives" Attabarani. And beware of the urbanization of eyes to what is not lawful for you, whether it's in the way of or in front of the TV screen, and the worst thing that brought him from satellite marital problems !!
6. Never Never raise your wife jealous, remember that from time to time that you submitted to marry again, or show you like one of the women, this challenge in her heart at heart, and stir Modtha to waves of anxiety, doubts and suspicions. Often they pretend those feelings different physical symptoms, from headaches to pain here and there, and if the husband takes his wife from doctor to doctor !!
7. Do not remember your wife defects issued them in certain situations, and attaches to those mistakes and Almaib, especially in front of others.
8. Edit your behavior from time to time, it is not only required that the spouse modifying its behavior, and continue clinging to you what you are, and avoid what interests peeve your spouse, even if jokingly.
9. acquired the qualities of your spouse offices, how many men increased commitment to his religion when he saw his wife stuck to the religious and moral values, and what comes out of their Semitic actions
10. Calm committed not get angry Anger basis of hatred and antagonism. Although erred toward your wife apologized to them, do not sleep your night and you are angry ones, a sad tears. Remember that what angered him - in more cases - is not worth a measly disturb marital your lives, and does not need all of that emotion. Astaz Allah from the accursed Satan, and chill Thortk, and remember that what is between you and your wife and the love of the links is much higher than that call common fleeting a moment of anger or emotion emergency revolution
11. Give your spouse confidence in itself. Do not make them a spin in Mejrtk maid executing your orders. But it encouraged her to have an entity and its thinking and decision. A_i_rha in all your affairs, and Interview by but one that is better, take the decision to make more sense when you know that, and told her so, although violated by opinion Vasrvha to think gently and bouquet.
12. pay tribute to your spouse when he is doing a commendable, the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him says: "Whoever does not thank people does not thank God." Narrated by al-Tirmidhi.
13. stopped directing defamation and reprimand, and compare it to other female relatives who admire them and want them to Ttakzhn ideals taking place in Ovehin, and gasping in Oakabhn
14. Try to provide them with the potential that encourages them to persevere and collection of knowledge. If they are, seeking to obtain a certificate in the branch of knowledge officer to do so, as long as it does not conflict with the principles of religion, not occupied by their marital and household obligations. And respond to the progress of your wife's success in its
15. Listen to your wife's interest, it works to rid it than Ran out of worries and Mkpotat, and avoided excitement and disbelief, but there are women who can not stop talking, or pour her a disparaging your parents or your relatives, you should then be treated it with wisdom and beautiful good
16. I feel your spouse that they are safe from any danger, and that you can not overdo it, or to separate them
17. I feel your spouse that you sponsor sponsored economically affordable Whatever the case, do not covet the money inherited from her father, it is not permissible for you to legally seize their funds, not skimp on the grounds that it rich, Whatever
They are rich in psychological need to feel that you are the real alternative to her father 0.18. Beware of social relations is permissible. Many of the ruined houses marital relations originating in those 19. And Facilities between your love for your spouse and your love for your parents and your family, do not drown out the part on the side of, nor controlled love at the expense of another love. So give everyone his right gentle persuasion, rectum and Alkstas 20. Be to your husband as you want to be is you in all fields of life, they love you and you love them. Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him: I would love to Hannover for women as I like to adorn me 21. Give her a great deal and good modicum of entertainment outside the home, as a color from the color change, especially before they have children of their concern itself 0.22. Share it with love and emotional about sharing it, Vzr her family and kept the whole relationship of affection and respect toward people 23. Do not make them jealous of your business Buncgalk him too much, do not let it accounts for all your time, especially in the holiday week, you do not deny the leave at a time, whether at home or outside, so do not feel bored and poisonous 0.24. If out of the house Vodaha with a smile and asked to pray. If entered no surprise it until you are ready to meet you, but lest you be if do not like to see them, especially if you come from a .25 travel. See them at life from the perspective of one ..We have recommended the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him women saying: "enclose Balquarir" Narrated by Ahmad in his Musnad, and saying: "but women are the twin halves of men." Narrated by Ahmad in his Musnad, and saying: "Treat women kindly." Bukhari 26. Try to help your spouse in some household work, have reached the good cohabitation with the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him to donate his wives helping them in their household duties. Aisha, God bless her said: "It was Allah bless him and is in his profession I mean Ohlh- service attended a prayer If left to prayer," Bukhari 27. Try to turn a blind eye to some of the shortcomings of your spouse, remember what their pros and Makarem cover this shortfall for saying peace be upon him as narrated by Muslim, "not rubbed (ie do not hate) believing woman that dislikes one of her characteristics pleased with another" 28. The pair to court his wife and tease her, and busin the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him at that: "Could a virgin players and the players?" Bukhari, and even Omar bin al-Khattab may Allah be pleased with him - an extremely strong hard in his reign - was Icolm: "A man should be in his family Kabba (ie, in intimacy and ease) was in the folk was a man of "0.29. Listen to your wife's criticism with an open mind, it was the wives of the Prophet, peace be upon him argue with him in opinion, it angers them 30. Best to your wife and your children, the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him says: "The best of the best to his family." Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, the you have done to them, do good to you and changed your life miserable happily, do not skimp on your husband and yourself and your children, and spent Virtue, Vanvaqk on your family charity. He said peace be upon him: "The best dinars dinars spend on your family
- Is intimacy is considered an integral part of the marriage relationship, or is it an essential part is more important than the marital relationship overall its image?
- Can you do the intimate practice just to please the other party? Or the desire to achieve a balance of physical, psychological and through intimacy?
- What is more what attracts you to the practice of intimacy in your partner?
- What is the most intimate thing bother you in practice, and respect life partner and Taatmnin be changed?
- How satisfied intimacy compared to expectations and dreams Taatmnaha / Taatmninha that?
Tips for grooms for intimate relationship better
Answer such questions vary from case to case, the answer is not constant, but vary according to the duration of the marriage, and the harmony between the two persons, stage age of the couple, and the most important facts related to sexual relationship as such a changing organism, you need to care and development; do not even enter the tunnel to get a feel and boredom and monotony, which is considered the most dangerous things negative effects on the health of intimacy between the couple's relationship, hence there will be an explanatory message to all married couples; to develop this relationship; each according to his circumstances and place, it can not be generalized sexual counseling to all cases, and also it is important to The couple realizes that the care and development of this relationship is a shared responsibility, not a specific party from the other.
In what some tips geared to both husband and wife following:
- The importance of Aldla (slave deal between the couple) in non-time intimate times, it gives a lot of satisfaction and comfort, which reflects positively on the intimate encounter, for example:
Dear husband when was the last time I called your wife as the thin even before the Ouladkma? Make it feel loved person; even outside intimacy.
You do your part, dear wife does not forget that the husband needs to be a sense that «sexually desirable» by his life partner, do not be ashamed to ask for intimacy (Take Action that Boutrguetk own).
- Things that affect positively on sexual health between you also verbal communication during the relationship, there is no need to be ashamed, Valenkat intimate sexual relationship while working to increase the level of excitement among the couple.
A happy marriage is like a disc of honey Nhltan adopted, the greater the effort the sweetness Shahd increased it, and many are asking how to make happiness in their homes, and why they fail to achieve the bliss of family and stability.
There is no doubt that the responsibility for marital happiness lies on the couple, there must be a love between the spouses. It is not intended reckless love that feeling which suddenly becomes inflamed suddenly turns off, but it is so spiritual and emotional compatibility between the noble sense of the couple.
And a happy home does not stand on love alone, but must be followed by the spirit of tolerance between the couple, and tolerance can not be achieved without the exchange of good thinking and confidence between the parties.
The cooperation is a key factor in creating a happy home, and otherwise weaken the values of love and tolerance. The cooperation is morally and materially. The first consists of a couple of good willingness to resolve what is being offered to the family of problems, most of discord arise from the lack of appreciation of a couple of other troubles, or non-equity partner rights.
We can not enumerate the key factors in creating a happy home without mention of chastity with reverence and awe, they are the focus of a decent life, and the origin of the good in human relations.
One of scientists has written the meeting says: "We have Dltinay experience that the best slogan might take couples to avoid discord, is that no fire can not be extinguished at the start fires cup of water .. because most marital disputes that end in divorce due to trivial things evolve gradually until irreparable "the responsibility to create a home of happiness for parents, often destroys the house of San pungent or sharp print speeds up to strife, and often destroys the pillars of household happiness love authoritarianism or lack of sincerity by a parent and small things in a great building in meaning .
Hack and some of those commandments that contribute to the happiness of your spouse:
1. Do not waver spouse, any insult directed it, remain entrenched in her heart and her mind. The most serious insults that can not be your wife Ngfarha you her heart, even if you Ghafrtha tongue, is that harm the agitated by, or _imha or curse father or mother, or accuses of view.
2. the best transaction for your spouse improves you, made her feel that you prefer yourself, and you're eager to delight, and the Governor on her health, and Amadh for it, if you get sick, for example, what you are capable of.
3. Remember that your wife liked to sit and talk with them and to them in all that comes to mind of affairs. Are not to your house frowning face surly natured, silent and dumb, it raises the anxiety and skepticism. !!
4. Do not impose on your wife's personal interests related Butagaftk or your specialty, you are the professor in astronomy, for example, do not expect to have the same interest in the stars and the universe !!
5. Be upright in your life, not the well. In effect: "Sorry sparing your wives" Attabarani. And beware of the urbanization of eyes to what is not lawful for you, whether it's in the way of or in front of the TV screen, and the worst thing that brought him from satellite marital problems !!
6. Never Never raise your wife jealous, remember that from time to time that you submitted to marry again, or show you like one of the women, this challenge in her heart at heart, and stir Modtha to waves of anxiety, doubts and suspicions. Often they pretend those feelings different physical symptoms, from headaches to pain here and there, and if the husband takes his wife from doctor to doctor !!
7. Do not remember your wife defects issued them in certain situations, and attaches to those mistakes and Almaib, especially in front of others.
8. Edit your behavior from time to time, it is not only required that the spouse modifying its behavior, and continue clinging to you what you are, and avoid what interests peeve your spouse, even if jokingly.
9. acquired the qualities of your spouse offices, how many men increased commitment to his religion when he saw his wife stuck to the religious and moral values, and what comes out of their Semitic actions
10. Calm committed not get angry Anger basis of hatred and antagonism. Although erred toward your wife apologized to them, do not sleep your night and you are angry ones, a sad tears. Remember that what angered him - in more cases - is not worth a measly disturb marital your lives, and does not need all of that emotion. Astaz Allah from the accursed Satan, and chill Thortk, and remember that what is between you and your wife and the love of the links is much higher than that call common fleeting a moment of anger or emotion emergency revolution
11. Give your spouse confidence in itself. Do not make them a spin in Mejrtk maid executing your orders. But it encouraged her to have an entity and its thinking and decision. A_i_rha in all your affairs, and Interview by but one that is better, take the decision to make more sense when you know that, and told her so, although violated by opinion Vasrvha to think gently and bouquet.
12. pay tribute to your spouse when he is doing a commendable, the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him says: "Whoever does not thank people does not thank God." Narrated by al-Tirmidhi.
13. stopped directing defamation and reprimand, and compare it to other female relatives who admire them and want them to Ttakzhn ideals taking place in Ovehin, and gasping in Oakabhn
14. Try to provide them with the potential that encourages them to persevere and collection of knowledge. If they are, seeking to obtain a certificate in the branch of knowledge officer to do so, as long as it does not conflict with the principles of religion, not occupied by their marital and household obligations. And respond to the progress of your wife's success in its
15. Listen to your wife's interest, it works to rid it than Ran out of worries and Mkpotat, and avoided excitement and disbelief, but there are women who can not stop talking, or pour her a disparaging your parents or your relatives, you should then be treated it with wisdom and beautiful good
16. I feel your spouse that they are safe from any danger, and that you can not overdo it, or to separate them
17. I feel your spouse that you sponsor sponsored economically affordable Whatever the case, do not covet the money inherited from her father, it is not permissible for you to legally seize their funds, not skimp on the grounds that it rich, Whatever
They are rich in psychological need to feel that you are the real alternative to her father 0.18. Beware of social relations is permissible. Many of the ruined houses marital relations originating in those 19. And Facilities between your love for your spouse and your love for your parents and your family, do not drown out the part on the side of, nor controlled love at the expense of another love. So give everyone his right gentle persuasion, rectum and Alkstas 20. Be to your husband as you want to be is you in all fields of life, they love you and you love them. Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him: I would love to Hannover for women as I like to adorn me 21. Give her a great deal and good modicum of entertainment outside the home, as a color from the color change, especially before they have children of their concern itself 0.22. Share it with love and emotional about sharing it, Vzr her family and kept the whole relationship of affection and respect toward people 23. Do not make them jealous of your business Buncgalk him too much, do not let it accounts for all your time, especially in the holiday week, you do not deny the leave at a time, whether at home or outside, so do not feel bored and poisonous 0.24. If out of the house Vodaha with a smile and asked to pray. If entered no surprise it until you are ready to meet you, but lest you be if do not like to see them, especially if you come from a .25 travel. See them at life from the perspective of one ..We have recommended the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him women saying: "enclose Balquarir" Narrated by Ahmad in his Musnad, and saying: "but women are the twin halves of men." Narrated by Ahmad in his Musnad, and saying: "Treat women kindly." Bukhari 26. Try to help your spouse in some household work, have reached the good cohabitation with the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him to donate his wives helping them in their household duties. Aisha, God bless her said: "It was Allah bless him and is in his profession I mean Ohlh- service attended a prayer If left to prayer," Bukhari 27. Try to turn a blind eye to some of the shortcomings of your spouse, remember what their pros and Makarem cover this shortfall for saying peace be upon him as narrated by Muslim, "not rubbed (ie do not hate) believing woman that dislikes one of her characteristics pleased with another" 28. The pair to court his wife and tease her, and busin the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him at that: "Could a virgin players and the players?" Bukhari, and even Omar bin al-Khattab may Allah be pleased with him - an extremely strong hard in his reign - was Icolm: "A man should be in his family Kabba (ie, in intimacy and ease) was in the folk was a man of "0.29. Listen to your wife's criticism with an open mind, it was the wives of the Prophet, peace be upon him argue with him in opinion, it angers them 30. Best to your wife and your children, the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him says: "The best of the best to his family." Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, the you have done to them, do good to you and changed your life miserable happily, do not skimp on your husband and yourself and your children, and spent Virtue, Vanvaqk on your family charity. He said peace be upon him: "The best dinars dinars spend on your family
